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| Nov 3, 2011 21:36 | #21   |
 | Quote:Originally Posted by MARK_81 Great story good luck to you!yes love happens when you least expect it Couldn't agree with you anymore. The more hopes, the more disappoints. |
| Nov 6, 2011 11:56 | #22 |
| GUEST12578 | You look like your're on the right track. Good luck. |
| Dec 27, 2011 22:07 | #23 |
| GUESTGUESTLOST | I had the similar true story as yours and I'm glad it worked out for you, except my one ended like a Korean funeral movie, not a Hollywood Disney movie. I am an Asian born Australian and you see, I used to know someone from Heilongjiang province of China. And... as much as it hurts me to write this, I wish to seek answers why she left me. We both met online, with her finding me first. I am usually hard to catch and open up to but she found me someone who she can talk to and relate to, share friendship together and adored my Character. Someone she could trust. She told me her personal stories and eventually at one time gave access to her QQ/msn IM. She basically TRUSTED me. And once I opened up and took the relationship to a higher level, I offered trust, intimacy and faithfulness. Please understand that I wanted to protect my heart and it took about a year before I became true to her and expressed my true affection for her and everyday our chat became a key of hope and strength for our life and our love. Many times she also said she will come to Australia through a international university study program. I never knew how hard it was, because there are so many Chinese international students to come study here (usually rich ones). I told her I would support her and pay part of her fees and free accommodation to recess part of her living expense because I know it's very expensive for her. We are both not rich and she understood that, but our love together was so strong, money didn't become an issue much. She just wanted a man she can trust and that she would get through ordeals with me together. So she was not materialistic in that sense. She just could not miss a day without me, and SMS me everyday. I realized she was the person of modesty, conservativeness, faithfulness and trust. Someone I was truely looking for, which is near impossible to find in Australian/American/UK women. But I told her chatting online is pointless, I will come visit her and speed up our relationship, to get to know her in person better and she was excited to hear it so much. She wanted that one day I live with her in China (and as she was the only daughter, I understood that and loved to live with her. So it wasn't about Green Card or money). But I told her I had to go to the USA first to finish my scholarship study so wait for half a year and I will come, and she didn't mind at all. Half a year was short for her. She just couldn't wait to see me. Good at this point... until this is where it went all horribly wrong... |
| Dec 27, 2011 22:19 | #24 |
| GUESTGUESTLOST | In the USA, we continued contact... but it was so hard. My day became her night and hers became mine basically and she was always so busy when I was free etc... So could never find the appropriate time to meet online, unlike Australia which had similar timezone to China. I met potential American girls interested in me, but I never pursued the relationship further with them other than being just friends, knowing that I already have the love of my life from China. So I tried to keep in contact by SMS, e-mail everyday with my Chinese love. But as everyday passed, she continued to lose interest in me according to the slowing down of responses and I realized something was wrong. I sent her so many emails everyday and eventually about my life in the USA and told her how much I loved her. But she sent only one email a week until it become one email a month until at one point, I thought she died or something. I frantically tried calling SMSing her but no pickup. I was very worried... Until one day... she sent me an email stating that "she was sorry she didn't contact me long time...and that I was a beautiful dream to her... and how was the USA... etc. Wait... a beautiful dream!!?!?!?! from that moment, i felt was terribly wrong... that I was being dumped for unjust reasons. She wanted to one day marry me... and now she dumps me lower than garbage ... just like that? IT MADE NO SENSE! Is it because I was a Vietnamese ethnic. Because you don't find Vietnamese men with Chinese women. I know I'm Vietnamese, but I can't change who I am. I was born that way. If I was a white American, I feel we would still be together. Did she find some white American or better? I just want to know what really happened, I feel she is hiding something from me. She said she was depressed for a month ever since I was in USA, but woke up and it changed her life and also see me only as a friend... I don't buy it. I told her I WILL GO VISIT HER and she said to don't bother wasting my time doing it. I found out she even made new QQ/IM accounts as if to start a new life away from me. She told me her MSN account was to be used for her studies and she always had two QQ accounts. I believed her until I eventually found out she also recently made a new Skype account? I feel she cheated on me and found someone else. So I made a new account and pretend to be someone from America and I talked to her on Skype... and let me tell you... she talked more to strangers than she talked to me!!! That means she looked at me more LOWER than a stranger!!! I just broke down and cried. She will never understand how I felt when that happened and how I still feel now. |
| Dec 27, 2011 22:26 | #25 |
| GUESTGUESTLOST | I still wanted to believe that good reasons prevailed as to why she did this to me. She promised me that we one day be together no matter what and I wanted that very much and that all good things never come to an end. I never thought that women would break these promises like they break hearts, BECAUSE I NEVER BROKE MY PROMISE AS A MAN. It hurts my chest to write this so much, but I must endure the pain. I can't keep it inside me. It's been a year now since the breakup and it still hurts me very much. Should I never trust Chinese women again? because half of me says that not all of them can be this cruel and cold, and half of me says that Chinese girls are like broken mirrors... It made me confused. Please anyone especially a Chinese lady, please tell me why she did this to me, since you know this best in terms of your culture. I feel she used me, but to what means? For 2 years using me, with nothing gained? it doesn't add up. So I'm confused why she did this to me. she broke my heart and I feel as if every Chinese girl is not to be trusted at all! Please... if she is reading this (and I doubt it), I want her know that I love her, I still do. Because it's impossible for me to tell her this by email/sms/IM because she does not add me anymore or respond to my numerous replies and I don't know what her new email is now. She says SMS in China is very expensive so she doesn't reply to me anymore. I'm going to continue trying because she once told me after the breakup, "Promise me not to stop contacting me no matter what I say and I say it out loud." So I will continue... but it's god damn hard when she never ever returns my calls/SMS/IM!!!!" What is she trying to do to me?!?!? I am a person who protects my heart and hard a catch, but when I open myself up, I am a person who remain true, loving faithful for the rest of my life, that's why it's hard for me to let her go even after a year and a half now. I feel from now on, there is no such thing as true love, just deceit and lies. I feel I don't have a heart anymore after what happened. I just don't know what happened to her and she became so cold and mean to me. I feel that I LOVE YOU is 8 letters, well so is BULLSHIT now. Even as a man, I cried about this and wanted to know the truth and I feel she wasn't telling me everything, was it because her family disapproval, her loss of hope? Yes.... it was a wonderful dream with her... together... and I still want to keep in contact with her EVEN AS A FRIEND... I wish someday, she could talk to me again. I was naive to think that good things don't come to an end. I realize that Good things DO come to an end... and true love is no exception... If you are one day reading this... If you found someone else over me, and you did... treat him the same way you used to treat me... Because I want you to know that... I loved you... Life Is Not About The People who act true to your face.... It's about the people who remain true behind your back.... |
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