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Honest man told her wife he had another woman and required for divorce!
Jul 5, 2012 04:55
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A boy and a girl were together for seven years and then they got married. Three years later, the husband had another woman and required for divorce. However, his wife refused to divorce, saying she could forgive him. In fact, the wife requested divorce after she knew her husband had another woman. This time, her husband required for divorce but she refused. Eventually, the court decided that the husband couldn’t divorce his wife.

Having another woman is not the excuse for divorce because the wife didn’t do anything wrong. It was the husband’s fault. The wife was generous. She said she would forgive him. Considering of her request, the court didn’t let them divorce.

Do you think it is necessary for them to stay together after this incident?
Jul 5, 2012 06:55
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GUEST86121 A marriage (or relationship) needs two people to have similar feelings, trust and faithfulness. What is the point of staying married if any of these are missing?
Jul 7, 2012 22:52
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A marriage (or relationship) needs two people to have similar feelings, trust and faithfulness. What is the point of staying married if any of these are missing?


Today, young Chinese people get married quickly. They didn't think about their marriage carefully. As a result, the divorce rate in China has increased in recent years.

This couple is strange. They had been together for seven years and then got married. I think they prepared to be a couple after seven years' relationship. Maybe, they are still too young to take care of their marriage.
Jul 8, 2012 11:22
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They have been together for trial basis and don't understand about marriage.
Wan
Jul 8, 2012 21:44
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If their marriage was not a love match, a divorce is good for them.

BTW, Wan, do you think women are disadvantaged in marriage?
Jul 10, 2012 19:09
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Most of the time, Raindrop. For example, man easily gets married after a divorce but not for woman. In this case a man has another girl besides his wife, what if a woman has another man besides her husband? Thr society will think lowly of the woman.
Wan
Jul 10, 2012 19:16
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This couple is strange. They had been together for seven years and then got married. I think they prepared to be a couple after seven years' relationship. Maybe, they are still too young to take care of their marriage.


I know a couple in Tianjin. They have 2 daughters, the youngest daughter is 32. They are gearing up for a divorce where the wife is 63 and the husband is 65. Although age may play a role, a divorce is inevitable when two persons disagree on many things.
Wan
Jul 11, 2012 22:08
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OMG! Do they really have to divorce? They have been together for most of their lives. Why do they divorce when they nearly go to die? If they disagree on many things, they shouldn't have been together.

Jul 13, 2012 05:40
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Sometimes people say marriage is a gamble, but in reality they gambled their marriage.
Wan
Jul 15, 2012 20:48
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Sometimes people say marriage is a gamble, but in reality they gambled their marriage.
Wan


So they want to who is the winner finally? If they divorce, they both are losers.
Jul 18, 2012 21:17
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Most of the time, Raindrop. For example, man easily gets married after a divorce but not for woman. In this case a man has another girl besides his wife, what if a woman has another man besides her husband? Thr society will think lowly of the woman.
Wan


I see, this is universal! it is so true that a single mother has difficulty to get married again in China. But for a man, it may not be a problem.
Mistress phenomenon is everywhere, especially among those so called official.
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