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May 21, 2013 04:15
  • RUBYGUO
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When do you think it's a good time to get married ?
May 21, 2013 21:24
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  • RAINDROP
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What about you, Ruby? Are you still single or married? Girls usually get married earlier than boys. It's difficult for left-over girls to find their husbands.
May 21, 2013 21:28
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  • RUBYGUO
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I am single . I think by 30 is good time . Life is long ,marriage is longer.
Aug 7, 2013 23:24
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  • GRIZ326
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It should not be a decision based entirely on age.
The decision should focus more on a full understanding of the commitment.

Young women do need to marry soon enough to have healthy children. Men need to have grown up enough to be a good father. Marriage can be too much for young men.
Aug 12, 2013 20:02
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  • CHERRY07
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Life is long ,marriage is longer.

Life is too short. You should find your man quickly. Don't let him wait you for too long, haha.
Aug 13, 2013 17:01
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  • WANHU
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In Asian culture unlike boys, girls play a waiting game thus it is not easy to determine when to get married though they may be ready at age of consent. The Chinese parents would worry if their daughters do not have boyfriends when reaching 25 years of age. In China boys have to wait too, enough money to pay deposit for an apartment.
Wan
Aug 13, 2013 20:49
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  • CHERRY07
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Wan,

Men's ages don't matter. As long as he has money, car and apartment, he can marry any woman he likes. Women's ages do matter. As they getting older and older, they have fewer choices.
Aug 21, 2013 00:32
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  • REDMOND28
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There is no fixed age but going to the standard practices, a girl should get hitched between 28-30 years.
Aug 21, 2013 01:28
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GUEST4564 Some girls have clear blueprint for their future life. They know when to get married and when to have babies.
Aug 21, 2013 02:02
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  • RUBYGUO
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haha, i love to hear all ideas. Just let it be , we'll get married eventually.
Aug 21, 2013 22:07
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  • JIMMYB
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Eventually? Rubyguo, do your parents urge you to get married? My best friend (a man) had worked for 5 years abroad. He went back last August. After staying a year in China, he decides to work abroad again. The living cost is surging incredibly for him. He spends all the money he earned abroad to pay the first payment for an apartment. So he wants to work abroad again to earn some money.

However, his mom doesn't agree. His mom was very angry when she heard that he wanted to go abroad again. She didn't talk to him for two months. You know why? All the boys as his age in his village almost get married and have their own babies. Her mom wanted him to find a girl and get married. My friend called her mom every week and promised that he wouldn't go abroad again. Then his mom forgave him. But she asked him to promise that he would do his best to find a girlfriend quickly.

He is just 28 years old.
Last edited by JIMMYB: Aug 21, 2013 22:09
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