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what do u think about shanghai girls?
Apr 15, 2007 11:08
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  • SANYACHINA
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"Maybe american is the most popular one,haha:-)

For married,I don't think some girls consider the history problem with Japan,they just want to go out~~~~~~"

Yes, it is. the ad of USA is strong and often irrational, so some people believe it. In the same time many Americans are trying to escaape and to live abroad, even in some East European or African countries countries (this is something that I can't understand)...

Yes, some girls want to go out, but believe me, not so many of them will choose Japan. I like the good Japan-Chinese relationships, but they are so difficult, because of some reasons.
And something VERY IMPORTANT - NOT EVERY CHINESE GIRL WHO LIKE TO BE WITH A FOREIGNER WOULD LIKE TO LIVE ABROAD. Hard for you to believe or not - most of the people prefer to stay in China. And I understand them - here is good.
Apr 15, 2007 11:28
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"汉奸" is a person who is a colaborationst, so I don't think that every Japanese fan is a "汉奸".
And about this that some Chinese girls do not care about the nationality - OF COURSE, they don't know even the nationalities in China, so how they can DO CARE?!
Sad, but true: Mostly in their mids are some SIMPLIFIED CONSTRUCTIONS (IMAGES) of the World like:

1.CHINA / "OUT CHINA"

1.1. CHINA = CHINESE, MINORITIES

1.2. "OUT CHINA" = AMERICA /the worst/
"OUT CHINA" = AMERICA + ASIA + something else, BUT NEVER ALL THE CONTINENTS. SOME GIRLS HERE DON'T KNOW WHAT IS "OCEANIA"(大洋洲) OR EVEN EUROPE (欧洲).
"OUT CHINA" = ALL THE CONTINENTS /much better/ , BUT NO IDEA ABOUT THE COUNTRIES.
For many people the following names MEANS NOTHING:

-Brunei 文莱
-Bhutan 不丹
-Albania 阿尔巴尼亚
-Kazakhstan 哈萨克斯坦
-Bolivia 玻利维亚
-Madagascar 马达加斯加, etc.
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Also! Some genius Chinese think like this:

BLACK MAN = African ( No way to be an American or an Englishmen...just no idea that the black race is existing as well in the 2 Americas and in West Europe...)
AMERICAN = White ( No idea that in USA are living not only black people, but also YELLOW:
-Decendants of Chinese, Vitnamese, Japanese...
-Escimos
-Aleutians...
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The reuslt : "I would like to marry to a foreigner!"
"Oh yeah? What kind of foreigner?"
"Oh?! They are...different kinds?"

Apr 15, 2007 11:30
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"i'm shanghainese.u know so sad what i heard."

Don't worry. I met few terrible Shanghainese prople. But I still believe that Shanghai is so big and not everyone is a bloody #$^%&%^. So, just don't care where are you from. Take care about who are YOU.
Apr 15, 2007 11:37
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"When I was attending university (in Canada), I was renting a room in a Shanghai-ese woman's home with her family. She told me many times, "Shanghai people are evil and immoral!!! Stay away from them as MUCH as possible." I was very shocked, because she was saying all these bad things about her own city's people. But since then, I've realized it's a very common perception. It's unfortunate how people from Shanghai (particularly females) have such a bad rep."

Because she didn't try some foreign kind of people to see what is really immoral and evel. I will don't type the names of two nationalities, because not every man/woman form these nationalities is like thier image, but HERE YOU ARE THE 2 EXAMPLES and laer think is it MORE or LESS evel than the Shanghainese:


a/ Catch a soldier and cut his head + cut his *** and put it on the mouth. I THINK THIS EVEIL IS IMPOSSIBLE AROUND SHANGHAI, AM I RIGHT?

b/ A party. After few drinks everyone start to copulate with others. I THINS THIS IMMORAL IS NOT SO POSSIBLE IN SHANGHAI, AM I RIGHT?

So, don't believe people who speak bad things about Chinese if they have no expirience about abroad. They have no base to compare what is REALLY good, bad, not bad, not good, not so good, not so bad, not bad enough, not good enough, etc.
Apr 15, 2007 20:07
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""汉奸" is a person who is a colaborationst, so I don't think that every Japanese fan is a "汉奸". "
Yes, I know, Sanya. I mean some ultraconservative think that Japanese fans are always Han Jian.

"i'm shanghainese.u know so sad what i heard."
There are good and evil in every city. Don't worry too much
Apr 16, 2007 06:38
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"Yes, I know, Sanya. I mean some ultraconservative think that Japanese fans are always Han Jian."
But you are not, so I think you may not use this word. Otherwise all American fans will be "Han Jian x 2".
And the problem of MANY ULTRACONSERVATIVES is that they don't see how dangerous for China are powerful countries like Turkey/India, etc which like to cut 1/4 of China, bt they only focused the pity, weak 4 islands called "Japan"...Funny!
Apr 16, 2007 15:49
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My experience of people in Shanghai, male & female, is very positive, so I see absolutely no justification for negative stereotypes. Neither have I found such characterisations useful for any other citizens of the places I have visited around the world. So make your own path IVYCL, and stand for none who would seek to clip your wings with silly prejudices. Not, I am sure, that any here would :-)
Apr 17, 2007 06:17
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thank for your post TRAVELLERMILE!
May 20, 2007 00:08
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Hello SANYACHINA,
Recently you have no post. Why?
May 20, 2007 06:25
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To all the Shanghai girls - my experience is that like all Chinese the Shanghai girls were all honest and helpful. (OK a few working the Nanjing Road are an exception!)
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