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Chinese women and American men
Mar 13, 2011 22:03
#51  
GUEST17440 seriously, have some pride and don't date these guys, they're probably not worth your time. Why are people so fixated on money anyways? Can these guys really make you happy? well, can they? Are they even rich? Probably not even close to a fraction of the amount of money you can make on your own. If anything you'll make the most money and they'll just spend it. Better idea would be to stick with an asian guy, they're charming, they split the tab with you on dates, and they can cook well. Asian guys are more worldly and cultured, they're not losers like some of these guys are.
May 10, 2011 22:23
#52  
GUEST73141 If this Travel China
Guide can't answer and you belong to it you wasted your money, how old are you and how old is she? Kiss up to her mom or dad if they speak english and try to get in that way as a plan B, Is she wearing a ring or just ask her if she is with someone, Man up or give me the address and I will hande it all for you!
Jun 29, 2011 04:25
#53  
GUEST83204 I spent three years in Nanning, China. I came over here from the United States after spending much time getting aquainted with my soon to be wife, five years to be exact. Never living with a Chinese woman before I can honestly tell you that it was the worst experience in my life. First of all, they have absolutely no manners whatsoever in public and they appear to scream at each other when they're talking. Instead of using a paper tissue to clean their noses, they use their fingers, both man and woman, kids also. Should a person need to use the bathroom then they'll do it in public reguardless of how many people are around. One would think if you blew your nose you'd also use a tissue as well. These people take one finger and cover their nostril on each side and blow their noses. And don't be fooled by their charming smiles because these women have tempers from hell over here if they can't get their way and attempt to control their men in every way possible. These people also lie and can not be trusted. You literally have to lock everything down over here for fear of it being stolen. They are all BARBARIANS!!!!
Jun 29, 2011 20:16
#54  
GUEST4581 GUEST83204,

I am sorry about your bad experience with your Chinese wife to be. But please do not generalize that all Chinese girls are like what you said. I also read that some foreign jerks do not treat their Chinese wife very well. Should I conclude that all foreigners are jerks?
Jul 2, 2011 21:01
#55  
GUEST12982 Guest4581,

Well said.
I'm an American and my wife is a former Chinese nurse. Cleaner than anybody I've ever known. Polite, charming, giving, not selfish, takes care of everything, plans everything - just a delight! She is from another NAN - Nanjing, that is. A world of difference from Nanning.

Guest83204,

Are you married to her now?

Jul 11, 2011 21:13
#56  
GUEST16561 If this is a Chinese woman you had better run from her as fast as you can .They will change big time if you ever get married . They want to dominate . If you like asian women I suggest you consider a nice Korean , Cambodian or Phillipino gal . I'm just offering my experience to help you friend .
Mar 23, 2012 21:42
#57  
GUEST48211 cause i am chinese girl, if you feels there are sparks from you and her, just go ahead, no problem, good luck
Apr 10, 2012 20:26
#58  
GUEST68151 I am a chinease and i majored in japanese since i am very interest in any countries and their culture .

Bad girls and good girl are both exsit in china as well as in other countries.
Aug 14, 2012 00:49
#59  
GUESTPETER sadly this is a complete falsification. In reality a Chinese woman will do one of two things on the first conversation, either tell you exactly what she wants or wait for you to approach any subject of relationship. the truth is Chinese women do find WHITE American men very attractive if they are clean shaven and generally fit. Chinese men tend to be slovenly and smelly and smoke too much.
But a chinese woman seeking a serious relationship even though she may refuse to kiss you etc will make it very clear that she wants to be with you. My wife did not kiss me until 10 minutes after we married. I am 55 and she is 47. we were apart for 8 months and now a month before our 1 anniversary I am in China with her. She loves the affection and we have had intercourse EVERY NIGHT for the first week. however there are many things contrary to what stupid internet *** etc show, Chinese women do not like!! she will tell you if she does not LISTEN. but Chinese men are non affectionate, so the type of physical attention from an American fiance or spouse is welcome to these women. And if she hints she wants to discuss sexuality do so! it will mean a much happier life when you marry.
But never assume because a Chinese girl is traditional she will not want you. however as a general rule Chinese girls do not like black men of any country origin. not sure why. and lay off the perfumed cologne! Chinese women do not like it as a common practice on their men. they want you to be and smell clean. and get rid of the scraggly hair on your face, most do find it attractive. I have found that goes for Asian women in general. SHAVE GUYS every day!
Also your girl probably will dress very nice all the time when you are out and about. don't look like a pig if you want her to find you attractive. it will set you out from Chinese men as a rule. tuck your shirt in, wear a belt, leave the ugly shorts and jeans at home. dress nice and she will be very happy to be with you and "show off" that her man is good looking.

This is advice from a 330 lb 55 year old man who when my wife and I walk around Nanning am flirted with by every young and older woman around. The young girls think I am very handsome and "fatherly" respect that is how they feel. the older women notice that I look "intelligent, radiant and thoughtful" and mention it to my taitai. Yes I was rejected due to my size by many women here, but now some of them who realize my wife accepted me as I am instantly and is extremely happy in her marriage are beginning to realize they blew it. Three of the women I met online in a website are actually acquaintances of my wife and all very lonely this year!!!
Aug 14, 2012 00:55
#60  
GUEST12866 ABSOLUTELY TRUE and some of those "good girls" are complete scam artists and sometimes neither Chinese nor even women. be careful on the internet, but don't assume because she tells you from day one she wants to marry you is a fake okay? it took me an hour of conversation with my wife to know she was looking for a husband dont waste her time!
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