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| Jan 16, 2009 02:46 | #251   |
 | i cant tell cos i havent got any western friends hm but i know a missionary whos is from canada and i think she is a happy person and she is very nice but maybe missionaries need to put their smile on their face all the time |
| Jan 16, 2009 04:32 | #252 |
| GUESTBETTY | Thank for someone setting up this web . Most I see here is telling good for Chinese girls/women.This is Betty ,a chinese . I can't answer why marry chinese girl but i like to share my feeling here . I met a guy on skype,an indian British.After a couple weeks chat ,he said he loved me and would come to see me on Christmas holiday .You can't imagine how i was tpuched when he said he liked me to be around and hope in future would take me as wherever he goes . It's a kind of feeling safety you know . Then everything was going well for 4 months but later ,he disappearred without any word . I kept emailing him everyday and then he said his mum passed away ......then over............ Every body said he was playing on me . Is it true ?? You guys ,may I ask you if you will tell your gf that you like her to be with you every where if you don't really love her??? Maybe it's because i don't understand westerner's thinking way...... It has been 5 months ago .During this time, I tried something bad . ..Not because I wanted relax or something but I wanted to hurt myself ,deeply ,and I wished he was looking at my behavior that time .......well, maybe you said i am a psycho...... I am planning to go to Taj mahal next year....... Thanks and if someone want to talk to me ,can email to me: hotmail.com|uglybetty1028 I am stupid at love ...what's love ??? betty |
| Jan 16, 2009 20:32 | #253 |
| betty i think he was just joking.. |
| Jan 25, 2009 10:34 | #254 |
| GUESTNEURO | I recently asked a Chinese woman to marry me after 2 years of conversing with each other. I have travelled around (including the Philippines) and although there are many beautiful women out there, I found many Filipina women (e.g., Cebu Bisayan women and the Hot Russian models) to have hidden agendas (green card then divorce). I can't group all women into this category; however, this is just my experience. Like my father, I can read people well and I believe that my fiancee was true and sincere. She is truly the sweetest person I know. She told me exactly what she wanted in a relationship so that there would not be any surprises for me. I got ill one day of my vacation and she sat beside me all day taking care of me; that really made me decide that she was the one and that her intent to love me was true. If you enjoy history, culture, and women who will treat you with respect and goodwill, then I do recommend a Chinese woman. If you prefer simplicity and prefer a loving relationship over someone you always have to question (questioning if the milkman is making a delivery to your wife), then an asian women are a good choice. |
| Feb 1, 2009 04:47 | #255 |
| GUEST05243 | Dear Sir: What do you mean by Finger crossed? Is there any problem, please reply me, so that I will be carefull. |
| Feb 10, 2009 13:41 | #256 |
| GUEST15142 | It is not about the race. It is about the love. I am a Chinese myself, I am now happily married a Italian American. I am not looking for an American, a British or what so ever. It happened that he is an American. If he is a Chinese, I would marry him too. Vice Versa! Love has no boundary! Why do we have to trouble our soul with race? |
| Feb 10, 2009 19:17 | #257 |
| GUEST64793 | Lets look at this from a different angle..It's not just the fact that these women are Chinese or Phillipino or Russian or whatever? Lets take a look at the social situation/economical background of these women.What is common to all these women? They come from countries that are still developing.Countries without the social safety nets of most North American/European nations.Countries where men still still play the dominant role in society and womens rights and social issues are just emerging.In other words these women are looking for a better social/economical lifestyle (the western lifestyle).Chinese men are usually more comfortable with the social/economical environment of China, thats why they do not seek "the western lifestyle" as much as Chinese women (marrying a western woman).It's also a characteristic difference between men and women.Men rarely use marry as a way of advancing themselves in society |
| Feb 20, 2009 07:03 | #258 |
| GUEST10199 | i love chinees girls very much........... |
| Feb 25, 2009 15:38 | #259 |
| I did learn to know a nice Chinese woman, was just looking around and she just looked very cute. We had a nice contact via internet. Then I visited her after not too long time. It was a wonderfull experience to go to visit her. To meet her family, to learn to know her little daughter XiXi, It was just a great succes. They were astonished i was so weel aware of chinese culture. We e-mailed and chat for about another year and she came to my country with her daughter. It just took 3 months for her to find out that her ''eternal'' love for me was gone and she wanted to return, So I told her to return. It took me about 6 weeks to discover she before was in a relation with a Canadian man married to a Taiwanese woman. She wanted to escape her second woman situation in China and made me pay for it. And after 3 months my Zheng Si Ping just left after 15 months of secrets and many lies, to treturn to her Canadian fraud in Shenzen. |
| Feb 26, 2009 15:30 | #260 |
| I have been cheated by a Chinese woman and a Vietnamese woman. It is like someone is stealing from you. It could be a test from heaven to see if you , by this experience start to steeal your self. Wehne yoyu are not loved by the one syou liove you can learn to love your SELF. When you do not know how to love your SELF you need other people to love you and in your weakest state other people make use of you. Allthough it has made me feel very very sad to have these experiences it only made me stronger at the end. And maybe someday I will be cheated again. But why should I be unhappy all my life when I have not the unhappy talent to cheat and steal feelings from some other human being. No reason for suicide. Feelings of suicide just tell you you are to much preocupated with a wrong view towards yourself. |
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