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Chinese mens' views of love, friendship, etc. in marriage, etc.
Aug 7, 2013 20:04
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Sorry, I just know very little about buddha. I never heard of eight-fold nobled path and four nobled truth to Nirvana.
Aug 10, 2013 09:25
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Haha, here is not a place to discuss about religion(s). I am too, just a novice.
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Aug 12, 2013 22:40
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Ok, we can talk it privately.
Aug 13, 2013 16:34
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You're welcome.
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Aug 13, 2013 21:38
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You are always kind.
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Dec 11, 2014 03:42
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GUEST15392 i'm dating a chinese guy! but sometimes i feel like i'm nothing to him..
he doesn't show any affection..

his business is his number priority,

he doesn't even say he likes me..

Jan 16, 2015 21:33
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GUEST11160 Here is my experience with Chinese men. I am actually married to one. It all depends on the man..my husband cooks for me and we share everything. He is my best friend and soul mate. However, I have had other Chinese men chase me in my life and they are very romantic and sweet but the thing about Chinese men is that they will only go above and beyond for the girl they love or really like. I have been told by someone who really liked me that the emotion towards the person drives their attitude and how they treat that person. If he is in love with you, he will do anything and everything to win your heart. Most Chinese men are friendly to people they don't love but will not go above and beyond for you if they just see you as a friend....but some of them, if they love you and cannot have you, their heart will be scarred by it for a long time. I have had men who fall in love with me and I cannot reciprocate back and they just don't want to move on or they keep trying to find someone like me instead...so it all depends on the Chinese guy but when they love they really do love! That is probably why I like Chinese men coz they are sweet and will often do what it takes to make you happy if they love you! I think when you meet one who will make you happy then he is the one...if they are cold, then something must be wrong with them.
Feb 6, 2015 11:49
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GUEST35218 My chinese husband is the same...
Feb 8, 2015 15:02
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I would like to think that some things are changing in Asians ( young gen) toward females and For females.
Of course, I don't have a great foot to stand upon on account I am white American.
and perhaps it is also more my own selfish wishes For women of Asian culture.
I want my Love to know that if she needs affection I enjoy serving her. If she needs anything I am for her. Understand it is also about keeping a Balance. A man must be able to assert himself when appropriate and take care of business and responsibilities For her.
Sadly...I fell in Love with an Asian girl Huanhuan 欢欢 (张欢欢).
I have moderately courted her for a couple years. why sad?
Because, she left to New York and I may never see her again. I told her I loved her. 我爱你 she said it back to me. then she, a week later moves to her sisters in New York. Very Painful for me.
Maybe she just freaked out about the whole thing perhaps?
she told her family she doesn't want to work anymore. this might be her Cousins words however.
She would not have to work. I would support a new career for her if it was what she wanted. I would have married her immediately if she would have me. A man of my word, I wait for her till July. Then I will have to Move on.
Sorry! I am rambling. my apology!
Feb 8, 2015 17:33
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Wrong!! SORRY PAL! That is a Childlike way.
As you grow as a person and a Man, you realize that there are more Incredible subtle influences to want to court a female.
Sex with a woman is the EASIEST Part of a relationship. I Must tell you, if all you do is focus on sex, you will risk to lose the Greatest LOVE of your Life!
first there is an attraction or if Lucky there is a Deep eye and almost spiritual attraction. That to me is more sought after by a seasoned Male.
Picking up women is very easy with confidence. it Happens in the clubs all the time.
Having Respect, Patience and Compassion for Woman and her Tender Heart is much more Beneficial to Both you and a female. A Mans Word and his Monogamist Strengths are the Strongest things a Man can Give a Female! Financially taking care of her and Giving her your support in her Career Choices and Respecting her individuality as a Person is the Relationship Package you must Give her!
Sadly some Men never Grow up and risk being lonely their whole lives.
Last edited by FIDDLEKRAZYSTEVE: Feb 8, 2015 17:35
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