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| Oct 21, 2009 10:21 | #41   |
| GUEST27512 | I believe the article is correct. And I am female. One person cannot be all things to another. Different roles are required. Different duties are required from each position. Your role cannot be carried out as effectively if you wear all of the hats. Absolute love is not selfish, it is about giving what is necessary to complete your esteemed as a whole person as well as receiving the same.. selflessly. I accept and agree with the different roles for myself and for others. And my role is that I choose never to be the wife. pc |
| Jul 29, 2010 20:24 | #42 |
| GUEST46565 | It is a helluva balancing act to do all three, but it can be done! |
| Aug 7, 2010 07:56 | #43 |
| GUEST81123 | Why should everyone have to buy into the same institutional solution to their love/sex/romance/personal lives? Can't it be that for some men, a life-long monogamous relationship is the answer, while for others the answer is anything along the continuum all the way to Hugh Hefner-style aging playboy? The trio of wife-lover-confidante is just a equilibrium point which seems to satisfy a lot of men, provided their society conditions have given them the chance. Why do so many women insist that ALL men should be shoe-horned into the same life pattern, i.e. a committed monogamous life partner? And don't say, well just don't get married then..in this day and age, not getting married leaves one an outcast, why give privilege to only one way of thinking about love and sex? |
| Sep 22, 2010 11:28 | #44 |
| GUESTWRONG TIME | guess this article is very true, although i have found no soul mate for i dont want to share my secrets to anyone, not even to a mistress. There are times that when you think that everything that you have in your life completes you, someone will come and show you something that you dont even want to find. You think that your wife is the only one you love, but then you'll realize that you are still capable of loving someone else. You ask yourself why would you fall for another woman, what could be the reason? But what if there is no reason? Its not about sex, affection, or any of that. That is what im trying to figure out. |
| Sep 29, 2010 05:29 | #45 |
 | The definition of a soulmate is a soul who as been together with you for several past lives. How do you know if the person you meet is your soulmate? One theory is that when you see that person, be it male or female, there is an instant connection and a very strong sense of familiarity even if you have NEVER met this person before in this lifetime. This soul could have been your wife or mistress in previous lives This soul could also have been your brother, father, mother, any relative or person that has a strong connection with you. Your soul is eternal, it's only your lifetime which is finite. |
| Oct 13, 2010 13:35 | #46 |
| GUEST34193 | what happens when the mistress provides sex money and says she doesnt want commitment then wife finds out leaves him mistress says wife ruined him for her or any other women rejects him him and wife get back toghter then misatress wants him i think its all a game to her she wants to beat his wife |
| Oct 13, 2010 13:53 | #47 |
| GUEST34193 | that where my husband is now he says hes in love with the other women he thinks now more then a friend even though hes not seeing her anymore.he says shes not prettier better in bed or anything else than his wife he doesnt know why or how he fell in love with her theaffair destroyed his marriage and his family and he still loves his wife because shes the mother of his children his wife and other reasons hes sorry for the affairthough does that make sense |
| Nov 27, 2010 10:57 | #48 |
| GUEST25254 | yes, of course..any men who chooses to have a wife, a mistress, and a confidant is not sure of himself. he is not a real man and does not know how to care, provide true love and be able to distinguish what is best for him. It is not normal to have a wife, mistress and a confidant. I bet if you make your wife these other two and you will surely appreciate her. but you have to love her and communicate with her openly. instead of running around finding an excuse on how to satisfy your problems by having another affair in your life aside from your wife, run around and find ways on how you can help your self to avoid commiting adultery. betrayal is painful. anyone (man or women) who gets betrayed will surely get angry. you call that nagging, then don't betray.women are people. your mother is a woman. would you appreciate it if your mother went with another man while married to your father? or if your father betrays her too. adultery is a disease. you can avoid it if you choose to practice healthy life habits in your marriage. communicate and don't fantasize about other women. Spice up your marriage with your spouse and pray to God, read the bible. To all of you men, do not betray, or else you will be betrayed also someday by your mistress confindant. |
| Mar 2, 2011 22:46 | #49 |
| GUEST72234 | I being the mistress and no longer a wife from many years past. I will tell you from the heart to be all three would be a dream. When I was a wife I never felt the willingness to do so, I have been a confidant too often, so YES the passion of being a mistress drives my heart to desire being all three. All three that is to the lover in my life who I am his mistress. I hear jokes and even once shared the similar concepts of mistresses until I became one. I will be honest, I have found more love and ways to love in the passion that we share. As for his wife I lose my heart and do not wish for her to be there, but at times the reminder she is still around causes my passion to cool. However, speaking from the mistress heart I know our passion already turned into love and he returns to me again. Our story is not so different from many others, but it ours to confide no longer do we hide. |
| Mar 8, 2011 23:36 | #50 |
| GUEST74113 | being a mistress is very lonely and the rewards are seemingly one sided. If you speak of passion just realize that the physical aspects all cool in time, but a cheating heart is a serious character flaw. A wife is a title to be cherished and respected right along with your husband then keep it that way because love involves a work of passion. Being a mistress is not a moral or ethical concept to behold and truly do not kid yourself a confidant is a unicorn as in not real, but a wife is very real. |
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