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Wife, Mistress and Soul-mate
Mar 8, 2011 23:39
#51  
GUEST74113
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being a mistress is very lonely and the rewards are seemingly one sided. If you speak of passion just realize that the physical aspects all cool in time, but a cheating heart is a serious character flaw. A wife is a title to be cherished and respected right along with your husband then keep it that way because love involves a work of passion. Be...
btw this was also written by a current mistress
Jun 18, 2011 04:32
#52  
GUEST82233 I agree with this one post.I think this whole blog is despicable. it encourages infidelity and adultery. However, i now understand what is happening in my life. A chinese woman from beijing has gotten a hold of my husband. she herself is married. Sheis the mistress and refuses to let go. she called me and said she was my husband's soul mate! I now understand what she means by sould- mate-- just someone to chit- chat with. I took it in the american sense of someone who truly shares everything and I was seriously insulted. She married her husband to get US immigration and get positions that he advanced her with-- including legal education. Now she is after my husband because he is slightly younger, more sexual anda "prestigious catch!" she is a deceiptful liar-- who lies to her husband that hse doesn't have contact with my husband and then texts him incessantly and brings illegal software and pronography from China to tempt him and to surveill him! But i appreciate this post because it obviously teaches me that the chinese culture both accpets, condones and promotes these illicit realtionships and is unnecessarily corrupting US society. people say she uses Chinese sorcery! I am praying that God will free my husband from this crazy crazy maker!
Jul 1, 2011 08:43
#53  
I would suggest you show her husband some evidence of her adultery. Chinese men are going to have to marry each other pretty soon lol. Many more Chinese women are not accepting their behaviour, and there is less and less Chinese women every year on top of that.
Jul 23, 2011 22:18
#54  
GUEST19294 I am a greedy woman. i have dreams of my own, and a pursuit of those dreams is driven from an inner toiling and eventual understanding. I would like to find a mistress for my man. I do not wish to please him sexually as much as he would prefer. but I desire to be a safe and nurturing harbor for him and our children. I'm tired of explaining myself and feeling bad for not needing sex from him everyday, it's just not who i am. he has a female confidant and i am happy with their relationship, i see the risks there too of course. But i do believe a third is necessary. a man takes up too much of my time and i need freedom for myself. i need a responsible mistress one able to separate and articulate feelings and actions just as i strive to do myself.
I like everyone else, am crazy in my own right; i am not everyone else, nor is everyone else like me. I realize and recognize the risks involved. finding someone ideal is no easy task in the first place, and love happens accidentally. but i need this for him and i need this for me.
of course if he chooses to run off with either over me, well perhaps he is not the man i thought him to be.
Jul 23, 2011 22:41
#55  
GUEST19294 I wish i could recall everything you stated. and i must state at once for myself that i do believe the love that you speak of does exist. i would think it of the highest form, which is familial love. however i must also state that everyone has character flaws. mine comes from a selfish and frigid place that i am not proud of- except when i am able to posses and channel it to my benefit. i wish i could be all three, but it is only in certain aspects of time do those different characters of mistress wife and confidant arrive. unfortunately, the time between tears my fellow to bits and i have to wonder how he still finds love for me in the times when my heart is bitterly cold to him and does not grant him then energy he calls for, be it of conversation or lust. i feel i do him and myself an injustice to merely discuss the issues and hope they get better. i am not sexually driven, i am driven by other factors but im trying to make an honest life. brutally honest to some but it would seem necissary if it is truely the life i seek. i suppose i talk at you specifically, for you offer up a specific reasoning and view point that i can appreciate. i just dont think it possible for myself, i hope you will carry on with your lifestyle. admiration is granted to those like yourself.
Jul 23, 2011 22:59
#56  
GUEST19294 so open the gates and do your best to praise your neighbors for the bounty they have in your time of drought. perhaps.
Jul 23, 2011 23:06
#57  
GUEST19294 i certainly hope so. i will be so disappointed with my man if he can not.
Jan 23, 2012 07:27
#58  
GUEST66010 Everything this man is saying is true. What all of you women either do not realize or are unwilling to admit is that women want all three as well.
Jan 27, 2012 06:40
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An legendary tale.
Feb 8, 2012 05:53
#60  
Thanks for sharing this forum with us .This one must help all the people and encourage to all the people for becoming the soul mate of the wife.
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