| if you fall in love with a muslim when you are not,what will you do? | |
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| Mar 10, 2010 02:51 | #191   |
 | I noticed that sometimes a personal opinion becomes a religious verdict. I hope someone can explain to me, if a prostitute embraces Islam for Allah and wants to commit herself for Islam, if a Muslim man wants to marry her is it a dishonour to him (because many men have touched as used her body)? I thought Islam is for everybody, regardless what he/she has been before, a thief, a robber, a killer, a prostitute, etc. I agree with LP when he often says little learning (knowledge) is dangerous. Generalising things won't help others to understand. |
| Mar 10, 2010 04:39 | #192 |
| Your relationship between you and God is personal. God desires your love, and commands you to do the same to others. Do not Let anyone else who is not God (an unbeliever) tell you anything different. Surround yourself in prayer and in study,,,fellowship with one another. Those who believe in God are a community of believers, living in a foreign land, and this land is destined to perish. We are all temporary travelers on this earth, and God wants us to prepare for Eternity with Him. For someone to do Gods work by judging someone elses past or their current walk is walking on dangerous ground. To say that God does not accept those who have sinned in the past makes God out to be weak. God Forgives, He does not pick and choose sins, to be forgiven or not. God is not some mean old man sitting on a rocking chair waiting to strike you for your failings. This Earth was cursed from the beginning, after Adams fall. Guess what?? your going to sin again in some way, you can bet on it. God is Almighty and powerful and "IS and "HAS" the Strength to do the impossible. To forgive someone of their sin is not Beyond His reach,,,,Thats why I love Him. LB |
| Mar 12, 2010 08:17 | #193 |
| May God give us power to LOVE HIM. |
| May 9, 2010 01:37 | #194 |
| GUEST50187 | OK - I really have a problem with a lot of these posts, which bring up all of these awful stories first of all; I think you should be hopeful but WARY. You should be hopeful because I am sure that there are good muslim men out there. There are GOOD MEN out there, who I am sure treat their wives and children with respect and do not marry or rape ten year old girls. In the west, pedophiles often exist, (thankfully, they do not have the protection of the law), but there are bad people everywhere. So you should not disregard this man because he is muslim. However, you should be wary. You should be wary because there are cultural differences that you must pay attention to. But I think these differences are much more subtle than just paying attention to the Koran and what it says. It is not so important to check the person's religion as it is to pay careful attention to how it is practiced. First of all, how religious is he? Second of all, what country is he from? It is very different to be from a secular muslim country than from a religious state, like iran or saudi arabia. Third, do you have similar education levels? Values? Views on life? Fourth, what are his parents views? Have you met them? Is he from a metropolitan city or from the countryside? This is very important because just like in america, in muslim countries the countryside is more conservative and more religious. So you see the factors are much more delicate than it seems. I have seen successful muslm-non muslim unions - but usually they have been cases where both the western and muslim parties are knowledgeable and open to the other person's culture -it does not work when either the westerner is clueless or the muslim is closed minded. SO be very careful. But do not assume he's out to get you. |
| May 9, 2010 01:54 | #195 |
| GUESTLILY | Well said, GUEST50187 We should not finish off with one blow. Bad guys are everwhaere in this world. so do the muslims. |
| May 31, 2010 03:28 | #196 |
| GUEST69122 | Surely not true for all... I have just seperated from a muslim guy and finding it difficult especially after 2 1/2 years ...looking for answers as not understanding ... could this be reason ... I am single christian mum ... |
| Aug 22, 2010 16:45 | #197 |
| its all propagada! I think we need to be more educated about religon of islam to our own not by racist media or people we should have our true views! people think its wrong because they are not in to it. Islam basically gives respect to women then others if you study it you will know what the concept of not to be half nude openly! No offense. |
| Aug 27, 2010 16:30 | #198 |
| Hi, friends , I am A muslim,so i think i have more right to speak about islam here,then any other none Muslims. Well let me lighten the topic,It is not your friends choice that if she should marry to him,Before that;one verry important thing; Muslim should marry to the Muslim,If not even he is perfact muslim and his wife is not,he cannot be perfact muslim, and he will taken as his wife, this is in islam ,dear friends, One more thing,Why she love that Muslim guy if muslim is bad?Does she love sth with out personallity?like ogansim,,,,,IF SHE LOVED THE PERSONALLITY THAT IS ISLAMIC PERSONALITY DEAR FRIENDS, Friend ,i think here we stop!If you speak,just speak along the topic,i hope,  |
Last edited by OSMAN: Aug 27, 2010 16:40 |
| Aug 27, 2010 17:08 | #199 |
| Quote:Originally Posted by GUEST83102 love him, love his dog.This can be answer for the Topic dear friends  |
| Sep 14, 2010 05:22 | #200 |
| It is good if can study all religions so that we can respect one another Wan |
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