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| Feb 11, 2009 17:05 | #21   |
 | Don't do the crime if you can't do the time. |
| Feb 11, 2009 20:12 | #22 |
| GUEST18186 | Ampilot, Gary is a born comedian. If you feel down, consult with Kinkade, he will let you up! |
| Feb 11, 2009 23:44 | #23 |
| I am not Chinese but I agree with all the others in this forum. As someone who has been blessed with a wonderful life partner for more than three decades I believe the institution of marriage is both lifelong and sacrosanct. If you betray the trust your partner has put in you then you will live in shame forever.To follow your carnal desires would be the ultimate act of teachery to someone who has borne your children and shared your life. You must forget these selfish thoughts and spend the rest of your days trying to make amends to your wife. P.S. It seems an awfull waste to leave your new girlfriend without the company she desires so maybe you could send me her phone number. |
| Feb 12, 2009 00:59 | #24 |
| Har, Har, Snicker, Snicker Yeah, Right...... Mr. Bobert......In regards to the phone number, that is. |
| Feb 12, 2009 11:58 | #25 |
| You non Chinese guys are funny, all the moralizing, don't do the crime if you can't do the time, but say, send me her phone number,haha. I haven't heard back from her. No calls, no emails. I'll giver her a call to see if she is doing allright, I am feeling very conflicted. I do care for her alot. I wonder what she is feeling, anything between, oh no and thank God thats over, I suppose. Well, what an interesting lesson I have had in life: I now know that deep down I am still a young guy, but just as rash, romantic , vulnerable and foolish too. You know, my entire interaction with Chinese women from China until now was along the lines of, "one order of kung pao and fried rice please". Now I know that behind that shy reserve they can be positively bewitching and despite vast differences in culture , deep connections of the soul are very much possible. What wonderful fascinating people the Chinese are. You gentlemen that have such relationships are lucky indeed. This kind of thing only happens, well, usually never, I guess maybe 25 years ago before I was married was the last time I ever felt anything like this. I suppose now it will be another 25 years before it happens again, and that, dear readers, is about as likely as a pig being able to whistle Dixie. I think, if this ever happens again, the next time I am in a foreign port and a bewitching young lady from the far east touches my soul in a way its not often touched, I am going to scoop her in my arms on the spot, tell her boss she is taking the night off and carry her off for a night of passion. Nah, just kidding, I will run like hell and take a cold shower. At least I hope I will. |
| Feb 12, 2009 14:41 | #26 |
| If you choose this wicked act of treachery you will never be able to look yourself in the mirror again. But if you do..maybe you could send me your wifes phone number instead. |
| Feb 12, 2009 15:10 | #27 |
| GUEST11050 | We must respect the natural laws of love and responsibility. A man who had that feeling which you are experiencing toward a monkey introduced HIV human immunodeficiency virus to civilization. People have the gift of giving, so HIV epidemic prevails. We must respect the cosmic law: it is okay to look, but no touching. Reset your mind onto the ones that you truly love (e.g. your spouse & children). Lust is only an imitation/counterfeit of love. Need to take a long dip in ice water. Life is still beautiful. Buy something that your wife would enjoy! Yes, serve some Chinese Tea—a tonic that will tune your central nervous system. Thanks for sharing your story, Brother! No charge for the consult—complimentary from Shaolin Temple Grasshopper |
| Feb 12, 2009 20:35 | #28 |
| Actually, the act of being faithful and honest to your wife/husband is not a case for being ‘self-righteous’. If you really, and I mean really love your spouse, you will never do anything that will hurt him/her. It will be very devastating for the wronged spouse. Look, there are more than 6 billion people on this planet. We can all ponder on the possibility that there could be ‘soulmates’ for us in every country there is. But if you married for love and if it is true that you really care for your spouse, you decided on the day that you married him/her that he/she is the one for you. You will not be out prowling for another. If you wronged your spouse, will your be lying on your death bed thinking about the hurt your gave her? And how would you feel if the tables are turned? In case that you don’t love your spouse anymore, just tell her straight. No beating around the bush, no ‘Oh, I just want to be alone’ excuses. I swear, men have more drama. But, what the heck, what do I know. It’s your life. *hums the theme song of soap opera “Days of Our Lives”*  |
| Feb 12, 2009 22:20 | #29 |
| Excuse me SHESGOTTOBE but your sexism is showing again. To infer that AMPILOT was "prowling for another" is a gross distortion of the stated facts. He said it was simply a chance meeting. Are you suggesting that he is lying about the circumstances to cover what you perceive to be his normal masculine malevolence? If anyone was hunting that day it would be more easily construed to be a trap set by HER. If anyone was a predator it was HER! Not him,as you prefer to believe. You seem to get comfort from the belief that men are always the marauding hunters and women are always the hapless victims. I can see why you enjoy Days of Our Lives. Everything is so black and white there. |
| Feb 13, 2009 01:09 | #30 |
| Ampilot, thanks for sharing your story with us on this forum. A fascinating read. I suggest that you don’t ever come to China though….the experience would kill you. She, I just think that you didn’t read all of Ampilot’s posts. Or at least failed to understand what he was saying. Further; as you have never been married for 20 odd years you would have no real first hand understanding, or experience of the dynamics involved in this type of long-term relationship. Couples change, grow; evolve, hopefully at the same pace and in the same direction; sometimes not. In addition, to paraphrase Bobert, “things are not just black and white” unless you life consists of following some TV plot. Dodge |
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