GUEST06150 | I cannot generalize and catagorize all Chinese women to be the same, but having lived and worked in China for 7 years, and finally marrying a Chinese woman that eventually came back to Canada with me my home country, i will say that in my case and also with other Chinese women i dated when i lived there, they are cunning, have hidden ulterior motives, very good at manipulation, and full of secrets and sometimes unexpected surprises. I for years would have bet anything that this woman would not and could not ever let another guy *** her behind my back. Well, was i ever wrong!
As an example, one day around 11am she asked me to go with her to have lunch with her and one of her chinese gf;s that i knew well also, but i said i can't babe i have to finish this report for a client, and she then started beg me to go with her, and i said i would but i can't so she said ok, well next time i must promise i will go and i said i promise you. Not thinking or using my brain, not wondering why is she dressed so *** hot and sexy just to have lunch at a restaurant with a gf of hers. Well she left at like 11am and all day i tried contact her on her cell, she always before would call me right back if she missed a call from me. This day no call backs, nothing, and she finally returned home at 8pm. And i knew, i just knew, ok? so long story short, she did not meet a gf for lunch, she had other plans, and ended up at a guy she had met house and let him *** her. And played me real good, begging me to go with her, knowing i couldn't and also with me thinking she wanted me to go with her so badly, never would i think she was up to no good.
I kept her, she did it again year later with some other guy, and who knows if during that year were not other men.
Finally she one day year ago told me she does not love me anymore and wanted a divorce and left. Just like that, over and done with!
She completely had me fooled from the start. And after she left me she continued to profess that she had never lied to me ever and also had never cheated! Well i reached a point where i thought, *** this nonsense, and went out and found a few men through investigating and talked to them, with them not knowing i was her husband, and found out all about her letting them *** her, and next time she called to blame me for the marriage ending, i said listen to this, played the tape i recorded when i met the other guys, and i have not heard from her since, ha ha.
My advice? Be smart, be careful and be observant if u marry a mainland chinese woman. |