Asian women marry western men for fatherly love?

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Asian women marry western men for fatherly love?
Nov 21, 2011 20:53	#51
GUEST18819	Its not a gender issue, men can be unfaithfull and badfaith too. I was married with a divorced man 14 years and he cheated me. I didnt. I am canadian, should I married an asian man?

Nov 27, 2011 07:09

#52

GUEST85237

I am a Chinese girl, 22 years old. I grew up in Austria and did my undergradaute in the UK, currently enrolling in a masters degree in the UK.
I dated an Iranian millionaire who recently who asked me to marry him. I was hesitant because i was unsure of how this relationship/marriage will turn out. will we be blessed by our parents, or the society at large?
He is now dating someone else, probably slightly older than me but still in her twenties.
I am devastated. For whatever reason, i feel like 'my man' is dating some other random girl, and that hurts so much.

I told him that i am considering building a family with him. He said i better think through about marriage, stop talking/contacting him for a month and try dating other men. if i still want him then, talk to a trusted person my age, talk to my parents then decide whether i want to marry him.

i don't know what to do. one minute i cherish the idea of the two of us and our children, another minute i cannot believe i will be married at the age of 22 to a man who's 47! the idea of marriage is daunting but the idea of being with him for the rest of my life is beautiful.

But what happens 20 years down the line? when i will be in my early 40s and he'll be 60 approaching 70? Will i spend the rest of my life alone? is he 'stealing' my youth like he says he is?

Nov 30, 2011 10:38

#53

GUEST19948

Larryboy. I found your writing is truly inspiring. - it just shows how narrow-minded and despicable some genders are. There are only two sexes in this world. - people are in fact the same yet they can be so different. Only the greatest would be remembered and we all want to live to see the end. A heathy mind and a heathy body is what I wish you to have and grow old gracefully. - that is every Mother would like to say to their young. To be able to say that, one has to chose carefully.

Nov 30, 2011 23:26

#54

GUEST85248

I am a western wife and mt 50+ year old husband cheated on me with an asian young girl while working in China. It devastated our marriage and it has not recovered. I thought we had a chance but after 4 years I find he is planning a trip there again behind my back. I have always been a good wife and done my best for him, never cheated on him, worked a full time job to help, ran around taking are of his properties he bought for investment, and took care of the children too. This is what I get for it...If I am feeling ragged this is why..only to have him cheat again.

Nov 30, 2011 23:41	#55
GUEST85248	85237 the answer is yes he will be much older than you and you need to consider that and think carefully to make the right decision. Money isn't the most important thing and it sounds like you are influenced by the glamorous life you would have with him. GUEST85248

Dec 2, 2011 00:54

#56

GUEST12146

I would hate to think of a life with out my wife, she is a young asian woman, by no means submissive. I would have to say the insight of even the young woman have extraordinary caliber. besides the beauty, she is the rock of our family, not to sure about the dirt floors and water whalla. American woman I have had the misfortune of coming across will do your brother, I watched my mom do it. ( not my brother) Not to mention the seed of hate they seem to harvest when it comes to drama, American woman love gossip and drama. listen to the cackling hen house next time your in a room full of American't woman. "Honey would you help me move this refrigerator out side?", and I qoute "I can't." Just the other night I went to test this thoery I asked my wife, you want to go out get some more fire wood? didn't say a word, was about to do it; before I held her down smoothered her in kisses and had explained what it was I was up too. great women if you ask me, I am so happy. Kinda reminds me of that funny as joke, If you lock your dog out in back yard and your wife in the front, both of them would *** to get let in of course, but after you let them in who would stop bitching first? that is why the dog is still man's best friend.

Dec 2, 2011 19:10

#57

GUEST10172

Quote:

Originally Posted by GUEST85237

Run, don't walk, from this relationship. You'll be very miserable if you merry him.

Why? 1. the age difference. 2. he's already looking at other women. 3. the religion factor.

Do you need more reasons?

Dec 2, 2011 19:40	#58
GUEST10172	Quote: Originally Posted by GUEST10172 Run, don't walk, from this relationship. You'll be very miserable if you merry him. Why? 1. the age difference. 2. he's already looking at other women. 3. the religion factor. Do you need more reasons? Sorry about the typo: MARRY

Dec 2, 2011 22:39

#59

GUEST85248

I feel very sad as having been an excellent American wife & partner to her man for 30 years that is being cheated on to read all of this. It makes me sad to hear of the many bad relationships between American men and their wives, and to read all of the postings. I wish you all happiness but I just want to say that there are very wonderful western gals like myself out there you have never met.

I am wondering if I go to another culture if I will find more of a choice for a better husband than my American one whom treats me as his treasure and appreciates all I do for him, is attentive as I am to him and love me as I do him?

I am leaving my American husband for cheating on me a second time with a Chinese woman 1/3rd his age and our children will feel it for years to come, and out family is destroyed.

Chinese women need to be sensitive to this and that many Western men lie to their wives while they are traveling...Or do you all not care? I have heard it is all about the dollar....??? If I sound a bit angry yes I am because I and my family did not deserve this. As far as I am concerned...you can have him...he is a liar and dishonest.

Dec 15, 2011 03:45	#60
GUEST79183	I am a young chinese woman, there are many white america or europe man who come to china and tell all chinese woman they are divorced or never married ( maybe they are not divorced), they tell all chinese woman they don't want to date white woman any more, they just want to date chinese woman, because they say chinese woman is fit and not fat, chinese woman look younger than their age..

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