| Once you marry a Chinese woman, it is tantamount to marrying her entire family. | |
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| Jul 18, 2015 23:26 | #91   |
| GUESTDAVEY | Love... It's hard enough to have a true love. The problem with me getting married to a Chinese woman is that I wish I would have found her right away in my life when I "actually grew up!" I'm writing this to those wanting you to know I'm learning about her culture via crash course. I took for granted that her coming her was as soon as she entered the USA she was American and had American cultural background. My unknowing and honest ignorance almost lost me a beautiful woman with a loving heart. I've been reading about the small things that bug her that I did that with an American wife wouldn't have gotten snything but a laugh . Take the time if you truly love her just to understand their culture . When a woman stops smiling abd you beat your head wondering what you did that caused that. Remember, a Chinese woman craves love first. Not your credit score like the high maintenance women here in the states. I don't know about anyone else but I'm grateful that I heard the pop sound. Pop you ask what's that? It's the sound your head makes when it comes out your ass! Lol! Treat them with great respect , protect them, and give them the love they seek. And all the colors begin to become brighter and your life becomes sweeter. That's just my personal thoughts ! Hope it opens your eyes. Eventually the heart follows. What a feeling !!!!!!! |
| Aug 1, 2015 09:05 | #92 |
| GUEST18213 | These are my opinion.Take it or leave it if you want to marry her, tell her most of your money go to creditor and you wont help her for getting green pass for her family because of your family policy. See if she stick with you. From what I know basically there somewhat rule of thumb for marriage for chinese: 3 C. These applied regardless whether that man is chinese or not. 1st Cash - legal or illegal does not matter 2nd Condominiom 3rd Car Well if you say if you want to take a break from employment and go unemployed and rest a bit. I wish you have a peaceful family life |
| Aug 9, 2015 23:03 | #93 |
| GUEST10170 | That article is so old that it borders on ridiculous, but as with any relationship it's buyer beware. Bad women exist in all cultures. If you haven't got the sense necessary to sort a good woman out then you deserve the bad woman you got. I married a good Chinese woman and I know others who have also married good Chinese women. My gal has more money than I do and because she did well with stocks, and she has no problem spending money on my needs. She's not extravagant - neither am I . We get along very well. Sure she has her own ideas and her own goals. I can certainly support her in her dreams. I know she supports me. The bottom line is that I knew how to sort out a good woman. Learn that first and you won't be here complaining about some woman you never really got to know in the first place. |
| Aug 22, 2015 18:26 | #94 |
| GUEST01211 | I knew a Chinese man older I am younger and Caucasian He thought u should work every minute He always tried to order me around be demanding tell me I had to sacrifice Knowing him I learned that control means to have someone do what you want simply because you told them to No rhyme or reason to it I think it was all about keeping up appearances just to say oh yes I have the woman friend or the wife To improve social standing Everything was about him I got impression Chinese men see themselves as the provider so they treat you how they want The whole thing felt like a charade to me |
| Aug 25, 2015 11:04 | #95 |
| GUESTOSCAR | Best wives ever, just get a country girl, she can cook and make you feel so rewarded. She will always be there for you in sickness and health, she makes sure you eat correctly and have everything you need before her needs, not submissive but a partner in life and love...thank god for a good woman like a beautiful pearl.... |
| Aug 25, 2015 11:08 | #96 |
| GUESTOSCAR | My wife is the same way |
| Aug 30, 2015 15:08 | #97 |
| GUEST14333 | I have been married for 11 years to a woman from Chengdu China. Everything this man has writes is true. |
| Sep 11, 2015 00:49 | #98 |
| GUEST56202 | Pal, even though China is No. 2 in ecomony, it's really the government which is wealthy. The real wealthy folks are less than 1%. Living standards from Taiwan and Hong Kong are closer to the US. Chinese care a lot on face, meaning if they own one condo they will say three. Telling lies is not shameful but being poor is or without a foreign passport is. Most people still live in poor condition in China. So even a normal rental condo is much better than theirs back home. That's why they love to visit you. When I was working in Beijng, my maids live in villages where they use public bathrooms. So you can imagine. |
| Oct 27, 2015 23:17 | #99 |
| GUEST02926 | I had a Chinese gf and most of what is written is true, she would often mention of times when I looked at another woman in a particular way going back months if not years She looked down on me because my education was not university. Having said that she was loving and had many good qualities although it would have been madness for me to marry her as she insisted on wearing the trousers and that was never going to happen, Currently talking to another Chinese lady and hoping she is more moderate |
| Nov 3, 2015 22:56 | #100 |
| GUEST56522 | WOW? you hit the nail on the head...and they like American guys because you let them walk on you. They do not know love as we do...If you are sane, sober and are a steady stream of $ for a long haul...then they quickly say "I love you"..It is as you said...from Honda to Lexus to Masseratti, 1 room to apt to house to apt building ...They are constantly competing with there girlfriends and family members (and they have a lot of them) to see who has the most name brand toys. They do not "live" life....unless you consider "you" taking the entire tribe to dinner... and when out with her friends..Yes, you gotta pick up the tab (she will pay with your CC) to show her friends how well off she is. They do not believe in hugging or talking or playing with their children. No affection...Strive, Strive, Strive...Maoist doctine in the DNA. The Chinese men are expected to cheat on their wives and then they divorce and she has to raise the kids alone...so marry an American, European or other disciplined exotic species. |
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