| Once you marry a Chinese woman, it is tantamount to marrying her entire family. | |
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| Jul 31, 2016 16:55 | #131   |
| GUEST85103 | I truely believe this is very insulting to chinese ppl and exaggerating. Every culture has its good points and bad points |
| Aug 4, 2016 11:48 | #132 |
| GUEST47699 | Trash men trash women can be found anywhere and any culture. |
| Sep 10, 2016 18:02 | #133 |
| GUEST15485 | I met and married a Chinese woman. Made the mistake of getting her pregnant and the relationship went down hill. Six of one, half a dozen of the other, to be honest. Neither of us are great material so no blame. From being very into me, she dried up after the first baby girl was born and it was never great sex, anyway, not like with white girls. Because of the child, i decided to marry her and help her get P~R in the UK. Last year, she wanted a child again and like an idiot, i did the deed. I am now imprisoned in a marriage with a woman i detest and the feeling is mutual. When i told her how i feel and asked if we should divorce, she accused me of cheating her into marriage. I hate the woman and everything about her culture. It is so bad that i am seriously considering blowing my brains out. My family hate her and she always complains to my brother about me. I never complained to her family about her but am seriously considering doing so. I feel so damned sorry for two little girls who hear their mother shouting 24\7. Any guys out there considering marrying a foreigner, i beg you, please don't. They are not the same as us. My wife helps other Chinese women with translating ect and i have heard them plotting divorce and trying to get GB Subject status. So mercenary it is unbelievable. Every Chinese woman i know married to a Brit is conning him. I secretly learned Mandarin without telling my wife who tells her friends i am a stupid British. She sits in the livingroom talking chinese to others calling us all the names under the Sun and engages in phone sex with a Chinese chef she dislikes and is married with two small kids. She says it makes her feel better that his wife is married to a looser. Take it from me: Chinese women belong in China married to Chinese men. AngloSaxons belong with AngloSaxons |
| Sep 15, 2016 12:49 | #134 |
| GUEST13149 | I befriended a Chinese woman 25 years younger, in China, and after having a nice and intensive boy/girl period, I said she should move on and find a good Chinese husband. She would not hear of it and said she wanted me and be loyal. Her father warned me about her strong character. After 4 years we married and immediately had a boy. When he was 2 she wanted me out. I prevented that, you cannot steal my son! Then we got a daughter. When daughter was 2 and the boy was 5, she announced that the marriage was over and she would move to China with the kids. She also said she was member of a Beijing club of Chinese women having married Western men and then leaving them. I prevented that, by making clear the she would not be able to leave the airport with the kids. So she stayed. As soon as our son was 6, it was too late for him to move to China and learn the characters, so that threat was over. Then, remaining totally dedicated to the kids, my wife began a terror regime to me when together inside house, while to the outside she fully pretended all was flowers and sunshine. After my son came through secondary school, for which I stayed, finally, I divorced and am rid of her now, to my supreme delight. She is a lovely woman but has been a horrible, scheming, disloyal wife. Kids are lovely and loving though, a paradise by themselves. Is she typically Chinese? I don't think so. But she is not the only one who did this. Bye now. |
| Sep 21, 2016 16:25 | #135 |
| GUEST54199 | Very interesting... And some truth to this... In a relationship w a Chinese woman for over 3 years now. |
| Sep 29, 2016 23:49 | #136 |
| GUEST15440 | Wow, I can relate to so much of what has been said. I have been with my Chinese gf for over 4 years now. She lives in Europe and has a UK passport while I live in the US. We had planned to marry this year, I went through an immigration attorney and filed all the proper paper work. But at the last minute, well about 3-4 months earlier, we decided to wait a while longer. She was just here for 3 weeks and now back to the UK. My question is about sex.... She won't agree until after we are married. She also says she doesn't really like it. She is 44 and married before with a son. I am pretty well versed with Chinese culture of her generation so I know that for many sex is only for having a child. She is also not very affectionate, so my question to all of you is; do you have similar experiences? And if so, were you able to find a compromise? |
| Oct 8, 2016 03:28 | #137 |
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| Oct 12, 2016 15:44 | #138 |
| GUESTGUESTJERR | Most of this information in the forum is quite accurate. I have been dating a chinese women for 2 1/2 years and she always bring up marriage. (She is 31 i am 30). Her family controls her way of thinking. They always ask when shes going to get married the pressure she gets is unreal. We recently bought a house together but only my name is on it. She wanted to put less then half down and asked to have 1/2 equity in the house. This is where i put my foot down, and we will likely break up over her trying to take 50/50 when we are not married. Also her mom will live with us and thats assumed. Perhaps im dodging a bullet even though im relatively happy with her aside from her family pressures and how they influence her behaviour. Shes great at giving cold shoulder when we agrue, and where im from we discuss our issues and try and work them out. (Canada). Anyways lots of challenges with Chinese women, they may seem great at all but follow your gut and dont put yourself in a position you will regret. |
| Oct 27, 2016 08:54 | #139 |
| GUEST72252 | Chinese wives are only intersted in getting money out you , and the amount of money they want increases . I warn any western man to avoid Chinese girls . They will force you to buy a more expensive house. |
| Oct 30, 2016 21:18 | #140 |
| GUEST24736 | yupp thats exactly how they are!! |
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