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| Nov 15, 2016 02:34 | #141   |
| GUESTPHIL | Every time I have a meal togther my chinese gf, she keeps forcing me to eat meat more than I want to.. she's watching me eat... saying I need to eat more than her, need to make her feel good she's eating not so much. At parties while I'm having a beer and chatting peacefully with some guys, she will keep chasing over to me telling me to eat more. It kinda freaks me out that at any time she suddenly appears and is forcing me to eat more beef or pork or sausages when i'm not at all hungry. Outside of that we are very close. I don't know if this is just a normal chinese gf habit or some sort of weird control freak issue? My aunties used to force fed me at family parties but that was only a few times a year! daily is kinda intense  |
| Nov 16, 2016 00:44 | #142 |
| GUEST26180 | I married a Chinese born woman on the 2/21/2016 and separated on the 7/21/2016. I wish I had known what I know now. On the 21st of July 2016 I was served with a Temporary Restraining Order. She played me. The night before I was served we spent the night together. The next morning she's on her cell phone. Little did I know she was calling the Marshall's to have me removed from my home that I paid for and everything else. I had to stay away until the court hearing on the 8th of August 2016. The judge dissolved the TRO She was caught in several lies. Our argument stemmed from her working but not paying taxes, she recorded a telephone conversation which is another felony I warned her that these things were illegal and there was some abuse against me. Both physical and verbal She was not the sweet woman she pretended to be. I applied for a Complaint of Annulment and because she panic she sent me a summons of divorce. She married me for a Green Card. The people that were helping me at that time told me that Women in China are taught to claim abuse and try to get a 5 year Restraining Order. In which at that time they can receive a Green Card. She laid so much at the Court Hearing that the Judge told her that her testimony was less credible than mine. She didn't get her 5 year restraining order. I could tell by her expressions that she was shocked. Obviously someone helped her exaggerate with lie after lie.Be careful my warning to you is if you want a Chinese wife make sure she is American born. |
| Nov 19, 2016 13:28 | #143 |
| GUESTRICKY | I want marry with Chinese girls but I can't find to her can you help me I am Ricky from Italy my email address..yahoo.com|ricky_rak |
| Dec 28, 2016 10:54 | #144 |
| GUEST19359 | Amen |
| Dec 28, 2016 15:27 | #145 |
| GUEST19359 | My girlfriend is Chinese, we didn't meet online but at the Chinese restaurant she works at, she pursued me, she works very hard 7 days a week 13 hour days witch is a problem no time together. We do get along great and she is very kind to me, I have noticed that money is very important to her and she does want to change alot about my house , she does raise her voice to me if I do not do as she wants me too, but she is affectionate, and has a great seance of humor, all in all very happy with her and have fallen very much in love with her, but after readiiall of these posts will give it time before marrying, who knows I may not be perfect for her. I am very easy to get along with, but she does have me biting my bottom lip sometimes when she gets mad at me for not liking something like orange peel that she thinks is so good, time will tell! |
| Jan 5, 2017 10:48 | #146 |
| GUEST90814 | lol I'm American Hispanic and I am Jewish I have duel passport to Israel. I speak Hebrew Spanish and some Chinese. I married a Chinese woman I met in California and had one boy with her. She tried to get her whole family here in US but I told here they need to live somewhere else from the beginning not with us or we were over. Didn't say a word about it again till our son was born! Then she pressed hard for her family to come live with us. I simply said I was going to Israel to live with my son and she could stay in US! We are still married my son is 7 now And It's just us and his mother in my house. I was also teaching my son Hebrew from the beginning along with English. He would speak English to his mother and Hebrew to me! It also helped sending him to play with other children that spoke Hebrew. For anyone getting married no matter if they are Chinese, Mexican, Russian or American you need to be the Man of your house and run it in the traditional order not your wife! Also I am very hard on my son! He reads writes and speaks Hebrew, English and Spanish fluently and some phrases in Chinese. As for my wife, she does not work, does all household chores and cooks! She has mellowed out and understands how our relationship works or I'm gone! |
| Jan 9, 2017 09:47 | #147 |
 | Hi, I and my Chinese gf together since 2012, we love each other. This year we decided to get married. So she told me i have to meet her father to proposed her. I think it is normal to meet her father since I met him many times before in different occasions. i was so excited to meet her father, but she shocked me when she told me that i should talk to him about how much money i have to pay him!!!!!!!! it means i need to negotiate with him about how much have to pay him...it is like he is selling his daughter..she told me this is Chinese culture. and i should pay money to her father. her father wants 30万元. So what i should do??!! |
| Jan 9, 2017 18:56 | #148 |
| GUEST40882 | Quote:Originally Posted by HATHA888 I and my Chinese gf together since 2012, we love each other. This year we decided to get married. So she told me i have to meet her father to proposed her. I think it is normal to meet her father since I met him many times before in different occasions. i was so excited to meet her father, but she shocked me when she told me that i s... This is normal in Chinese culture. Just be prepared. The money is the so-called "Caili" or "Pinli". Parents of the girl may think the more the money you give them, the deeper you love their daughter. However, I still think 300,000 Yuan is too much.  |
| Jan 9, 2017 21:17 | #149 |
| GUEST23165 | Quote:Originally Posted by GUEST40882 This is normal in Chinese culture. Just be prepared. The money is the so-called "Caili" or "Pinli". Parents of the girl may think the more the money you give them, the deeper you love their daughter. However, I still think 300,000 Yuan is too much.
So the scale of love is money.. nice culture.. , Do you think how much i should pay? 100,000 yuan? I have feeling like we back to the ancient time when they sell girls and women as KEPT WOMEN or maid... |
| Jan 9, 2017 23:49 | #150 |
| GUEST40882 | Quote:Originally Posted by GUEST23165 So the scale of love is money.. nice culture.. , Do you think how much i should pay? 100,000 yuan? I have feeling like we back to the ancient time when they sell girls and women as KEPT WOMEN or maid...
It's hard to say. The most important thing is you should be sure you love the girl. Tell her to talk to her father about this in a peaceful way. May it help!  |
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