Once you marry a Chinese woman, it is tantamount to marrying her entire family.

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Once you marry a Chinese woman, it is tantamount to marrying her entire family.
Jul 24, 2017 01:26	#181
CAMERON420 Points: Join Date: Jul 24, 2017 Status: Offline	Quote: Originally Posted by GUEST49764 I have read every single post I'm from the U.S. 20 years old going on 21 it seem to me a lot of people on here say that Chinese woman are not good wives and are very controlling. Some say they are very good loving wives.But I also notice that guys tend to rush in some of these relationships very quickly it seems better to just get down to earth wi... his my new account so you can also just message me here

Jul 24, 2017 01:26

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Originally Posted by GUEST49764

I have read every single post I'm from the U.S. 20 years old going on 21 it seem to me a lot of people on here say that Chinese woman are not good wives and are very controlling. Some say they are very good loving wives.But I also notice that guys tend to rush in some of these relationships very quickly it seems better to just get down to earth wi...

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Aug 8, 2017 15:18

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GUEST35166

Average American man or Canadian man are no longer wealthy when they are compared with Chinese men of the same age. 20 years ago, it was true a professional western man makes much more than a Chinese guy with the same profession. However in last 20 years or so, money flow in China has increased 1000% and so is the average salary. Today it is the Chinese that has more money. I have met many people who owns 5 or more apartments in major cities when travel in China. Each apartment worth half a million USD or more therefore 5 units worth 2.5 M USD.

The point is average Joe should avoid Chinese woman because the chance of being looked down on and monetary pressure is high.
The west is not as glory as before due to slow economic growth, bankrupted states and high living costs.
I have seen many old white men with an ugly Chinese wife. Some of them do not even speak English. Honestly it is stupid because there is no conversation.
One of the reason that western men want a Chinese wife is feminism. This is a mistake in my opinion. Chinese wives can be extremely controlling, bossy, and relentless.
In general the young generation who was born as a single child of a family is not submissive nor feminism. Those who look for such a wife should look elsewhere in east europe or south east asia. People in many such places speak perfect english so it is much easier to find love for guys from USA, Canada, Australia etc.

Aug 17, 2017 02:34

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It's intreresting to discuss about marrige with people all over the world, for it's not only relevant to one's own personality, habit, hobby and so on,also culture and environment of different countries and races behind.For Chinese women nowadays we can devide them in different types, some are still very traditional maybe because of their education from original familes, they just get used to get together with their big families and they think these are their responsibilites to make lives better for their relatives,some are more open minded and expect for more indepent and respect relationship. So I'm happy to see there're more ideas and more choices for women in China.

Aug 21, 2017 05:31

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GUEST34134

I think people often forget there are cultural differences. A Chinese wife is in charge and she is your boss. If you wish to have a successful marriage you should do as you have been instructed. One of the reasons they control the money is to control your. I think chinese women make the best wives however she is not only your wife she is also your boss. A Chinese woman would point out that she buy everything you need and cooks and manages the house. You therefore have no need for money. They have logic on their side in every argument. Never disobey your Chinese wife or girlfriend. Sheel will take it as a personal insult and never forget.

Aug 25, 2017 19:09

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GUESTBIG DON

There are some great comments and insights in this thread. I have a Chinese wife. Brought her to the US 6 months ago. I am crazy in love with her. Difficult, demanding, controlling, are all realistic comments. She is also intelligent, loyal, family oriented, and hard working. When she is smiling I am happy. Communication is the hardest part. We are both learning to speak new languages. Google translate is not enough.
Life is hard but I appreciate all her efforts to adapt. It will take time but we are both over 50 and realistic. We believe in each other and our future. All marriages take work.
Be calm, be gentle, be honest. Love and respect go a long way.
She will teach you healthy habits but she will demand compliance. They have discipline. Our freedoms look like sloppy habits to them. Find a happy medium. She needs to ease up and I need to tighten up.
Good luck to you all.

Aug 27, 2017 17:37	#186
GUEST53116	I recently met a woman online. She is wonderful. I have offered her everything but she would say she needs only her husband and that is it. Chinese women are the best in the world, faithful, honest, trustworthy, loving and caring. If I borne million times I would marry a Chinese woman. An Asian British.

Oct 7, 2017 16:55	#187
GUEST89122	hehe

Oct 29, 2017 02:59	#188
GUEST64894	all I can say is that u have fucked up ur life marrying this chinese woman. I dont feel sorry for u at all. But I can offer some advise: get divorced and throw her family out.

Nov 15, 2017 16:13

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GUEST73112

I married a Chinese girl from Hong Kong. She had lived in Canada for 10 years before we met. She had most of the traits discussed. Strong ties to her family, didn't like my family, always in charge of everything, I never was able to win an argument, she was hard on our 3 kids, her memory for things that upset her was amazing and her parents moved in with us! But she improved my life immensely and was always concerned with the health and well-being of our children and I. Our marriage lasted 36 years and wasn't all sunshine and rainbows. It took work. I lost her to breast cancer this last spring. I still love her and miss her desperately. Not every Chinese girl is a keeper but even with her flaws mine was.

Jan 27, 2018 00:09	#190
GUEST29133	I married to a Chinese too, and she is not like this at all. The picture painted in this article is for the really backward Chinese women with no western education or experience. Most of them can hardly speak English. The author of the article may have a bad marriage of his own, but he should not generalize for the rest of us.

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