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Apr 18, 2013 02:55
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Not really, you may discuss things with your peers. For personal things, to discuss with whom you can trust.
Wan


In fact, I seldom share anything dark about me to my peers or friends. I always show them bright side of me. I don't want them to worry about me.
Apr 22, 2013 13:59
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It's not about worrying someone but rather sharing things as long as for good cause. It may get off some burdens from your chest as long as they remain confidential. Sometimes friends may have big and wide mouths too.
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Apr 23, 2013 02:33
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Sometimes friends may have big and wide mouths too.

Exactly. That's why choose to keep silent. And I never borrow money from my best friends because I am afraid that our friendship will be demaged.
May 1, 2013 06:00
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It's better to borrow from banks than from friends.
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May 4, 2013 02:05
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It's better to borrow from banks than from friends.
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That's right. But I borrow them money when they come to me. I just think they won't come to borrow money from me if they don't have something urgent. Strange mind set, isn't it?
May 20, 2013 16:52
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It's not strange, it's what we expect from borrowers. Only sometimes these borrowers take things for granted, if I go to this person he never turns me down.
Wan
May 21, 2013 01:35
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Yes, some people make use of our kindness. They borrow our money and never return it back. I believe that no one will lend them money someday.

Here is a Chinese phrase "好借好还再借不难". It means "If you borrow something from someone, please return it back in time. Then you won't have any trouble if you borrow something else from him/her."
May 21, 2013 11:58
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"Pay when due although you are not asked".
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May 21, 2013 21:11
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"Pay when due although you are not asked".
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That's we should do. Keep your promise and you will gain trust and respect from the lender.
May 24, 2013 05:49
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So far I have never borrowed money from people, except a particular bank to renovate my old house. I have another two years more to go. They pay is deducted from my monthly salary, thus I don't have to go to the bank every month.
Wan
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