| Magical seven-color flower! | |
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| Jul 17, 2013 08:57 | #11   |
 | I only walk on streets and never go to big companies. Wan |
| Jul 18, 2013 04:05 | #12 |
| Quote:Originally Posted by WANHU I only walk on streets and never go to big companies.Wan What about your wife? Does she go to work? Or is she a fulltime house wife？ |
| Jul 18, 2013 07:24 | #13 |
| On a lighter vein, there is no part time wife, haha. The beauty of a wife is, although she toils with hard work yet she is still a fulltime housewife. My wife although lacks in academic qualifications but definitely she is far better than I am. She teaches at kindergarten. Wan |
| Jul 22, 2013 22:10 | #14 |
| Wan, It's true. Although men share house chores, women are always full time house wives. They need to work, take care of her kid and her husband. |
| Jul 23, 2013 03:03 | #15 |
| True dear BBQQ. So husband should appreciate more with what he has and tries his best to care with full of responsibility. In fact it is an extended responsibility from her parents that have taken care of her for the past 30 years or so. Wan |
| Jul 24, 2013 00:53 | #16 |
| Same to the wife, Wan. One's husband has been taken care of by his parents for nearly 30 years. The wife should deal with the relationship with her mother-in-law properly. Then the husband won't be put into difficult situations. |
| Jul 24, 2013 20:21 | #17 |
| But then we were taught by our parents that a husband guides and provides. Thus we need to guide our wives what to expect in life, provide them shelter, food and clothing. We were taught from small by our mom that in order to guide we need to learn and have knowledge with patience and forbearance. Knowledge is through learning, including informal observation. We learnt how to cook and how to be independent and be prepared to "fight" in the concrete jungle. So we became streetwise. My mom used to remind us that like a snake, even it glides through under the tree root won't lose its poison, meaning it's not wrong to respect even a beggar and we won't lose our self-esteem. Wan |
| Jul 25, 2013 03:10 | #18 |
| Wan, Men are responsible for providing food, shelter and clothes for women. But women should also learn to take care of their husband. If she just enjoys what he provides and show no concern to him, I think he will soon find another woman to replace her. |
| Jul 25, 2013 04:42 | #19 |
| The wife has other responsibilities, my dear BBQQ. She is the cutodian of their children, to educate the children, etc. When people know and understand their responsibility, there won't arise the husband abandoning the wife. Wan |
| Jul 28, 2013 04:53 | #20 |
| Wan, I feel like that you are really a traditional Chinese man. The man makes money to raise the family and the wife just stays at home to take care of her children and husband. I wish that I could find a man like you. |
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