| if you fall in love with a muslim when you are not,what will you do? | |
|---|---|
| Feb 3, 2012 21:02 | #211   |
| GUEST29227 | Please run fast from any Muslim man. He cannot and will not love you. He can only love his mother and Allah. He will be sweet and manipulating to have sex with you, even though it is against all rules of his religion. Please read: THE YEAR I LEARNED TO TEXT; Why Am I Having Sex with a Muslim in My Basement? The story of a woman with a broken heart that cannot be cured. Don't end up like her. Julie |
| Feb 9, 2012 06:12 | #212 |
| GUEST27001 | What wad her final decision? Did she break uo with him ir stay with him? Sorry I'm going through the same situation and decided to end my relationship but now I am having second thoughts as I miss him so much and just want to be with him |
| Feb 21, 2012 11:06 | #213 |
| GUEST29227 | Please advise her to leave him and quickly. His treatment of women comes from a sociopathic culture. She must not have anymore contact. She may have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder from the over-gushing and then the dumping, and back and forth it will go. It's just a game. Please read THE YEAR I LEARNED TO TEXT;Why Am I Having Sex with a Muslim in My Basement? And realize that the "happy ending" is just the beginning of misery for the heroine. You get get it at Amazon.com, E-book too. Hugs out to you. Julie |
| Mar 10, 2012 01:46 | #214 |
| GUEST72130 | its not like the man doesnt want her. he loves her! but because some points and rules are too strict. he just doesnt know what to do about it. But there are many other muslims who are not religious.. wish the best for two of them |
| Mar 22, 2012 23:50 | #215 |
| GUEST13199 | I did date 2 Arab Muslim men (Saudi Arabian) in different time; they were very polite, handsome and sweet at first. The first one told me he loved me BUT he did not treat me like he loved me so I ask him to forget me after 3 months. The second one, he slept with another women in my absent and he was proudly telling me about it, and right away I told him get out of my life. |
| May 8, 2012 18:16 | #216 |
| GUEST97144 | I am muslim and unfortunately most people draw Islam on there mind in a wrong way because of what NEWS says. but any way I have good news for her muslim man (not woman) can marry to any other religion and she can stay in her religion and carry on her life with him .. she is not going to change her religion just because she will married a muslim of course not but the children will become muslim. |
| May 9, 2012 16:28 | #217 |
 | A lot of Muslims now do not follow the Book and the paths of the last Prophet where they should, rather they follow other people or their own opinions. They disobey their God by sleeping with illegitimate women, and some of them even solicit prostitutes. In this forum, we see some of them (of course not all) request escort services, etc. In the name of God they detonated themselves and killed innocent bystanders. With these poor behaviours can we trust Muslims and Islam? In Malaysia, both Muslims and non-Muslims studied Islam for their School Certificate Examination, and some of them took Arabic studies. From what I learnt, a Muslim doesn't sleep with a girl who is not his wife, a Muslim doesn't drink liquor, he doesn't hurt nor cheat others. Since when Islam allows a Muslim to marry a girl of any other religion? The Prophet of Islam said: I leave unto you two directives that (by following the two) won't lead you astray, the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of Hiis Prophet (Malik bin Anas, "al-Muwatta;", al-Riyadh: Dar al-Ihya al-Turath al-Arabi, 1985, p. 899). I do not wish to delve deeper into religious discussions in this open forum. I have some discourses with some Muslim friends in order to understand the tenets of Islam. Love is sacred, love thy parents, love thy wives and children, love thy community -- to please God. Having sex before marriage in Islam is not love but lust. Just stay away from these people who claimed themselves to be Muslims because they do not represent Islam. Wan |
| Sep 3, 2012 00:35 | #218 |
| GUEST98186 | I met this Muslim man recently via facebook. After a few weeks, he started telling me that he cared for me and that he loved me. Is it possible? We have not even met. But I can feel his sincerity. I don't know what the Muslim men's beliefs are or their ways about love and courtship. How can I be sure that he means what he tells me? He told me one time that as a Muslim, he is decent in carrying out relationships. Would you tell more about Muslim men when they are in love. Thank you. |
| Sep 8, 2012 07:44 | #219 |
| Dear Guest98186, observation is the best policy. I was once a counsellor (not anymore) but should you need further discussions, you may contact me via my email, either TCG or my personal email. Wan |
| Nov 22, 2012 02:46 | #220 |
| GUEST11196 | I am a Muslim, my entire family is Muslim.... my brother's wife (originally Christian) is a converted Muslim... my best friend.. (Originally Jewish) is a converted Muslim... When you fall in love, you should never base you judgement on the religion. The question you should ask yourself is that "Will I be able to live my life with anyone else BUT this person?" if you answer is no I can't.. then make the effort to get to know what you are getting yourself into... If you are answer is Yes I can.. then leave the person and never turn back to look at that person again... Religion should not be the reason to be with or without someone... It should not even play a part!! religion is something that is YOURS!.. not your boyfriends or your husbands... it is yours! In Islam... if you don't embrace Islam with your heart .... then there is no point converting... (that goes for any religion.. if you don't do it from your heart .. there is no point.. stay who you are...) In Islam if you want to marry a Muslim.. that should not be the reason to your converting... Islam encourages to stay in the religion... and if tomorrow you break up or have a divorce.. you will no longer be muslim ... so really what's the point to do it for someone else... do it only for yourself if you want to... not for anyone in this entire world... and a boyfriend or a husband can not force her as a Muslim to do that either!.. if he is doing that then it is wrong... it has to come from your friend's heart to do it for herself.... not for him... Islam is not pressured... it is a way of life... no one can make you a Muslim if you don't want to be..... because being a Muslim means to follow a certain why to live a life... Also, which might be very important for you friend... tell her if "you are not a good human being, then you are not a Muslim"... this is Islam.. and being a Muslim... and if he is not a good human being... then he is not a Muslim.... It will make it easy for her to decide... tell her to take into consideration his decency, his respect for her and his/her elders and parents, his use of abusive words... how he treats people who are poor and disabled... how he is with children... how is he with the old... how he is with a person who is sweeping the Mc Donalds floor....does he respect people.. does he gossip.. Because in the end.. she will not be living with his "ISLAM" she will be living with his "PERSONALITY" and that is what will be passed on to her children... so before she makes a decision .. worry about him as a human being... then his religion... and if she likes what she sees in his personality then she should study Islam to understand the way of life that he lives... and if she feels she WANTS to be part of that way of life then she should embrace Islam... and if she doesn't.. then she should feel pressured to convert..... God bless! |
Post a Reply to: if you fall in love with a muslim when you are not,what will you do?
Copyright © 1998-2024 All rights reserved.