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I am a Chinese girl
Mar 13, 2009 09:00
#51  
GUEST15246 i'm sorry about what i heard ,but life didn't stop ,so we have to live our life and i'm from middle east i don't want nothing from you just to keep going .and about *** that guy let him to the life will give same what he did to you.because (what is goes around coming around)
Mar 16, 2009 11:00
#52  
GUEST24109 Been living here in China (Guang Zhou) for the past 5 years. Living together with my (Chinese) girlfriend for the last 3 years.

Everything seemed so perfect...Then i had to go to Greece for 3 months due to work. (*This is the only time i'd had to leave the country in 5 years) She assured me she would be fine....Although she would miss me soooooo much!!!! I believed her!.(In some cases, when the cats away the mice will play)...We kept in touch everyday by phone ....But after the 1st month i found she was starting to change. Her conversations were getting more and more brief and she seemed keen to hang up ASAP!!
Her phone was then regularly power off "due to the battery" yea right!!! Due to our different time zones my calls to her would be very late in the evening.

To cut a huge story short...I returned back to GZ and found out she had her monthly period for well over 3 weeks. I tried my best to persuade her to go and see a specialist because i was worried about her.
Of course she refused to see anyone and kept saying i was over reacting and that it was normal!! etc, etc...

A few days later i was searching for a business card which had disappeared off the face of the earth. I then started searching in stupid places and discovered a pregnancy tester kit hidden at the bottom of our wardrobe under some plastic bags, which had been used!!

She told me a story worthy of an oscar about her good friend meeting a guy who invited her for dinner, beer and resulted in sex without a condom because her friend got drunk. Then because this guy wasn't very law abiding, her friend was afraid to inform him and decided to secretly have the baby terminated!.
So she came to our apartment and did the test here out the way of the guy . I'm sure everyone's in stitches laughing by now.....But at the time i was close to tears!!

...She later admitted to everything and the above story was about herself, not her friend!

I'm a 100% faithful native UK guy and fluently speak, read and write chinese, so communication was certainly not a problem for us. I was together with her every day so it wasn't like i was neglecting her...I was crazy about her and she seemed the same towards me..I even met her parents several times and had a great time together with them!!

I planned for marriage!!

But maybe god made her angel mask fall from her face to reveal the real devil she is before i made a huge mistake!

It's a lesson learnt!! Due to this unfortunate event i find it difficult (borderline impossible) trusting Chinese girls even though i know it's impossible they all behave in this manner.

I got done by a 花心 girl.

I hope this never happens to any other expats living here in China.

Regards

Jerry







Mar 17, 2009 10:40
#53  
GUESTHKGUEST I think in HK, it is quite abnormal for a girl having sex with different guys who are at her age .
btw, my Chinese friends describe you as 'MK" (local HK popular wording)
but I can say you can put less cosmetics on your face.
Mar 19, 2009 15:29
#54  
GUEST51135 Sorry to hear that however you happened to met the wrong guy! dont make someone a priority when they only see you as an option, I would suggest better give up if you already know that you are heading in th wrong direction, you had already lost your diamond while you were busy looking for a stone on the foot path....! dont make the same mistakes again!.....relationships works best when they are balanced...wise men learn more from fools than fools from the wise! bye .....Good luck!
Mar 26, 2009 11:28
#55  
  • NIKOSURFING
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poor of me... Many times i failed to make a relationship with chinese girl.
maybe because iam a muslim guy? so sad,,,,
Mar 27, 2009 22:46
#56  
GUEST16259 poor girl !
Mar 28, 2009 02:08
#57  
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Dear Nikosurfing
You are sad because you are a Muslim or failing to make a relationship with a Chinese girl?
Wan
Apr 7, 2009 12:01
#58  
GUEST10153 stop arging about who is the badder, its not the women and even not the man, everybody needs sex, and thats it.
If you had sex with someone its only because you wanted to do so, so dont tell us "I tough about real love..." shit.
I love sex and women I had sex with.
See you !
Apr 12, 2009 08:16
#59  
GUEST29134 chinese girls are god's most beautiful creations. i've never even met a chinese girl whom i would consider ugly. can somebody help find me a house and a job in China?!
Apr 13, 2009 14:15
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  • WEBBERINWEB
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Hey,
I am Asian American and I think you are cute.
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